Yesterday we said our final goodbyes to Fred. His death was not unexpected. He was well into his eighties and had been in ill health for some time. Yet despite this, it was still a shock. He always had a wonderful spark about him and was so full of life. He thrived in company and had a wonderfully mischievous twinkle in his eye right to the end. When she was able to visit (before covid) my daughter loved to explore the garden with him, or play with his foot massager, or travel up and down the narrow staircase on his recently installed Stannah. Fred loved her company in turn. He would take her to pick ripe tomatoes or find secret passages between the rows of sweetcorn. When he was less mobile, he would stand at the foot of the stairs with the stair lift controls and my daughter would giggle and laugh as he made the lift take her slowly but surely to the top. He was like another granddad. Yesterday my daughter sent him a final video message and I couldn’t help but feel the loss.
I have written about Fred previously, but in this blog I wanted to revisit the story of our first meeting and a conversation we ended up having about teachers and teaching. I want and tell it again now in light of the man, and the teacher, I came to know. I suppose it’s my way of saying goodbye, but also, I hope a way to share the wisdom of someone who I wish everybody could have met. Lunch with Fred I first met Fred in the summer of 2016. My wife has been visiting him for some time as he was a member of the local church and had recently lost his own wife, Sue. Just like Fred, Sue had been a teacher. She had worked with women in immigrant families in Bradford to help them learn English. Some of these women still came to visit Fred right until the end. In the summer Fred was often to be found sat on a lawn with a cup of tea and company whilst small children ducked in and out of runner beans or picked apples or pears in the garden. One Sunday, Fred invited my wife and I along to lunch at a local pub. Before she became a vicar, my wife had been a primary school teacher, and I was in my first year of running a PGCE course. It was almost inevitable that the conversation would turn eventually to teaching. You may not believe this, but I am actually not a huge fan of discussing education outside of my professional life. All too often I find myself in conversations with people who either think the youth of today are going to Hell in a handcart, or that teachers are too soft. Or conversely, I end up listening to people telling me that knowledge doesn’t matter and that we just need to teach children to be creative. Either way I am very bad at the polite but firm disagreement which these encounters require. Fred had been a teacher in the 1960s and 1970s. I reasoned he had almost certainly been trained in the progressive pedagogies of this period (he once met Piaget it transpired) and was already anticipating where the conversation might go. Meanwhile in 2016, I was drunk on Michael Young, ‘powerful knowledge’; the liberations of ‘rigour’; and busy decrying the ‘soft bigotry of low expectations’ found in many schools obsessed with GCSE grades or ‘21st century skills’. I suspected that our dinner conversation would be one to endure rather than enjoy. As with so many other times in my life when I have been certain of my own rectitude, I was wrong. Reading none of the books We helped ourselves to a carvery lunch. Roast beef and all the trimmings. We sat with steaming plates whilst the conversation turned, as expected, to teaching. Fred was interested in my work with new teachers, and I talked a little about what interested me. I spoke especially about empowering young people with knowledge and the role of rigorous history teaching. I cringe a little when I think about it now. He nodded along with interest.
What makes a great teacher?
I often think about that story when I am working with new teachers. I come back to it because our educational landscape is often painted in black and white. Do this. Don’t do that. The truth is that education is never black and white, and the power of great teaching lives mainly in the messy middle ground. Early in the PGCE year I do an exercise with trainees where we consider what makes a great teacher. We revisit these ideas throughout the year and amend and trainees change them as they learn and practise their own teaching in the classroom. There are no hard rules for what makes for transformative teaching but whenever I think of a great teacher, I am often thinking of Fred. Frist, great teachers are curious. If you had been to Fred’s house, nestled away in a quiet cul-de-sac in Idle, just off the Leeds Road, you would have found a life of curiosity. His hallway overflowed with fishing paraphernalia. His living room was filled with homemade toys, which my daughter used to delight in playing with. Next to his chair you would have found shelves of books and homemade contraptions to do this and that. If you had been lucky enough to be invited up the rickety ladder into his attic, you would have found a fully functioning dark room: bottles, trays and developing tanks all still meticulously organised into a careful workflow. When searching for some food recently, one of his children found a packet of old cinefilm in the bottom of the freezer, just awaiting its opportunity to be loaded up and used. Fred could talk on almost any subject. In his time, he worked as a craftsman, joiner, coffin maker, press photographer, middle school teacher, and probably much more. Being curious is not something we often talk about in relation to teacher training but the best teachers I know show this same curiosity in all the work they do. They are curious about their pupils’ experiences. They are curious about what works. They are curious about why some students struggle with this aspect or that. They want to know what is happening and how they can help. And they want to help young people be curious too. Curious about learning. Curious about the world around them. Curiosity is the first step to transformation. Second, great teachers are methodical; they put in the hard yards and build knowledge and understanding patiently over time. The real joy of Fred’s home was his garden. He told us once that his mother helped him fall in love with gardening at the age of five and this love was nurtured and grew throughout his life. Fred’s modest house was a gateway to the most extraordinary garden. Over the years he purchased little parcels of land from neighbours so that his originally humble back yard eventually stretched in a long, snaking line right across the backs of all the houses on Leeds Road. Patiently, and over many years, he built greenhouses and sheds, weeded and hoed, planted and tended his crops. His garden was a testament to eighty years of gardening knowledge and understanding: a labyrinthine maze of potatoes and carrots, towering sweetcorn, gnarled apple and pear trees, raspberry canes, ripe tomatoes, and juicy strawberries. A garden like this, much like an education, is the work of a lifetime. Whenever I have visited him, he has always encouraged me not to give up on my own fumbling attempts at horticulture. He has never accepted my excuse that I have “black thumbs” and I always received some new advice on when to plant my potatoes, or how to stop my carrots from being stunted.
Just like gardening, so much in teaching is not about the flashy breakthrough but about the patient work we do everyday. Day in day out, great teachers, just like Fred, keep building paths for young people towards meaningful and life enhancing ends. It would have been all too easy for Fred to just take the books away from these boys and never bring them back, but his commitment to the joys and power of reading meant that he kept nudging them towards that goal throughout the year. Great teachers never give up.
Finally, the best teachers, just like Fred, understand that all teaching is, at its heart, relational. Unlike many of us who become more irascible and misanthropic the older we get, Fred approached life with a great openness. He loved talking to people. He loved working with children. He was interested in everyone and everything and this meant that, even in his twilight years, he was still meeting new people and forging new friendships. Everything we do as teachers rests on how we form trusting relationships in our classes; how we show patience and understanding; how we help young people to feel successful and like they belong. Fred has this quality in spades. If we hold relationships as foundational to children learning then we will truly have a chance to transform the lives of young people; to open new doors for them in their lives; to help them feel heard and valued. We may never see the results of this work, but it will happen all the same. But more than all of this, if we hold the three principles above as important in our professional lives, we also become open to shaping and enhancing our wider lives in the process. Fred lived a life which constantly brought him joy through curiosity, which gave him satisfaction through determination, and built relationships which meant that in his final hours he was not alone, but surrounded by the love of his family and many friends.
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